As you grow up, there are a few things that you learn that you should be doing. You learn to conform to certain gender roles and expectations. You learn that you have to go to school to get an education so you can get a good job. Sometimes you even learn to follow specific strict… Continue reading Life Doesn’t Make Sense
I'm surrounded by my amazing friends and family. I got lucky with my parents and my brother. I did not choose them, I was handed them on a silver platter. I did choose my friends. I did not exactly orchestrate the timeline of the friendships but I nurtured and worked hard to maintain them. When… Continue reading Adrift
She called me. As soon as I saw her name on the caller ID, I knew something happened because we both dislike talking on the phone. I picked up and said right away, " What's wrong ? " She started with her usual " Soooooooo ," followed by a long pause letting me know that… Continue reading But Why Are You Really Hurt?
I want a love that erases all my fears about whether or not I'm worthy of love. I want to be able to freely talk about and discuss our love with others without fear of being embarrassed. I want to feel like we are working towards a promising future together. I want to be able… Continue reading What I’m Afraid To Admit
click to read : The F*ck Friend (part 1) **************** Continuation ************ I was shocked. This man, who I believed was being completely transparent with me from the very beginning just informed me that he was still a married man. I feel like when someone asks " Are you still technically married? ", if you're… Continue reading The F*ck Friend (Part 2)
Since I was a young girl, I had this idea of what my life would be like as an adult. This, of course, was based on how I perceived the life that my parents lived. My mother is two years younger and 4 inches shorter than my father. Naturally, I expected to marry an older… Continue reading I could settle down but…